说说好爸爸(三): 你愿意为了孩子而改变你的陋习吗?

kmzzy

说说好爸爸(三): 你愿意为了孩子而改变你的陋习吗?

孩子常常仿效爸爸待人处事. 如果你在一个家庭里看到孩子对妈妈不礼貌, 不用说, 那一定是从他爸爸那里学来的.
身教胜于言教. 没有身教, 言教作用几乎是零.
“爸爸”的陋习也真可谓多也: 不关心也不谈论国家大事, 津津乐道社会绯闻, 不注意个人卫生, 懒于做家务活, 吃饭穿衣过分依赖妻子, 吸烟, 酗酒, 迷恋网络游戏, 出门花钱大手大脚甚至铺张浪费, 不关心社会公益, 不遵守社会公德, 对待来访客人不热情不礼貌, 在家不喜欢看书看报, 看书写字姿态不正确, 做事无计划, 答应和许诺的事情经常不兑现, 不关心妻子的身心健康, 在家起居生活随便, 不注意身体锻炼, 饮食挑食偏食, 等等等等.
好爸爸: 必然会想到孩子的仿效, 必然先从自己身上陋习改起.

yunru

You can see bad habits of parents from their kids. If we want to raise a child with good habits, then we have to be a good model ourselves.

Po

We can learn good things from our kids as well. Personally, I feel my daughter\'s existence has made me a much better person.

Originally posted by yunru at 2004-1-24 03:06 AM:
You can see bad habits of parents from their kids. If we want to raise a child with good habits, then we have to be a good model ourselves.